As I posted earlier, I am spoiled. Well, make that was spoiled. This week we decided to suspend the services of our wonderful housekeeper of 5 years, at least until I find a job or we make more money. I know that most readers of this blog likely clean their own house. But, let me have this moment to grieve the loss as well as absorb the fact that I am now the housekeeper.
We have whittled the budget down almost as far as it can go. The only *extra’s* are netflix and XM radio-for a total monthly amount of $22. I am extremely impressed with our ability to go from an extravagant lifestyle where we once had a $500 monthly spending allowance for entertainment (ahh, the good ole days!!!) down to one income and no revolving debt.
I am embarrassed to admit– with all of the complaining and whining I have done over the last year or more regarding our budget that we still have a housekeeper.
However, just today I came to the realization that we should suspend her services.
For the record–we cancelled the gardener, we cancelled most of our cable services and all unneeded phone services. We stopped eating out with special occasions as the exception. I sewed a pair of underwear the other day–yes, you read that correctly. We have energy and water efficient appliances. We recycle, compost and conserve water and electricity. We don’t have a heater or AC. I cancelled my gym membership, several magazine subscriptions, and stopped renewing for friends (sorry!). I started shopping at second hand stores for toys and kids clothes and accessories. I accept all hand-me-downs from friends and family, and do my best to pass along lightly used items to those who may need them as well.
So, keeping our housekeeper didn’t seem like a big deal with all of the other sacrifices I felt I had made. Plus we LOVE her, and she has been with us for 5 years!!! …except that Elliott still goes to daycare 2 days a week. And, as much as I love my free time, I don’t really need THIS much of it. I am bored. Today, our housekeeper is scheduled to come (she comes every 2 weeks), but I am finding myself cleaning and doing laundry because I have the time, energy and I AM BORED.
Now, if the stars align in my favor I will be getting a hedge trimmer and maybe even a blower for the BIG day. Our gardener works through the end of year–and then it is all me with the yard work. I don’t have any idea what type of job I am taking on. But, I am certainly not afraid of manual labor (just spiders, oh and any insect). I will be certain to complain about this soon. Look for a post about the first week of January.
I will talk with hubby about this, and see what he thinks. But, if I am going to make ‘a go’ of staying at home–I should do my own cleaning, do you think?
I want to start making my own household cleaners. I have been doing some sole searching (I want to be a full time Mom) and budget searching (in order to justify the loss in income, we would have to save money elsewhere) and have decided that household cleaners are just way to expensive. Many are also toxic to humans and animals, not to mention destructive to our environment.
So, I am going to test out my creative (and chemistry) skills. If anyone has any suggestions, advise or recipe’s–please let me know! From the research I have conducted thus far, it is a simple as this ingredient list. I will keep you posted.
So far I have been pooped on twice (Elliott’s new nickname for the week is the salad shooter)
Pee’ed on 3 times (my husband has his own count going)
Elliott gained 13 ounces this week, and doesn’t have to go back to the doctor until his 2 month appointment. Yippe, except that it’s for shots…
I have lost 24 of the 45 pounds I gained during my pregnancy, although when I got home from the hospital I had only lost 6! That is less than my child weighed (I don’t know how that was even possible…but if you saw how swollen I was you might understand)
We have had countless visitors and phone calls with well wishes and congrats-Thank you!
We, and I am speaking of the collective we (Hubby, Elliott and I) have received 6 packages in the mail (woot!)
I have gone through an entire package of wet wipes and a package and a half of diapers
I have done at least 5 loads of laundry
Parenting is fun!